There are 15 components of mature love mentioned in I Corinthians 13. I will list them below (adapted from the Message Bible). All you have to do is rate yourself on a scale of 1 (very poor) to 10 (excellent). Do it in the context of your marriage for this is where the deepest love is to be displayed.
1. Love never gives up
2. Love cares more for others than for self
3. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have
4. Love doesn't strut
5. Doesn't have a swelled head
6. Doesn't force itself on others
7. Isn't always "me first,"
8. Doesn't fly off the handle in anger
9. Doesn't keep score of the sins of others
10. Doesn't revel when others grovel
11. Takes pleasure in truth
12. Puts up with anything
13. Trusts always
14. Always looks for the best
15. Never looks back but keeps going to the end
Thoughts to Ponder:
What areas of love are your strengths to build on?
What areas of love are ones that need growth?