Top 10 Clues for Women to Solve the Marriage Mystery

 In 20 years of counseling here are the top ten things that men want women to know.  If women would pay attention to these ten clues they would solve their marriage mystery.


1.       Admire me as a husband and a man, respect who I am and what I do for the family.

2.       Make sexual intimacy/love a priority

3.       Understand that I may not understand so make your point clearly and get there quickly.

4.       Have fun with me.

5.       Keep yourself looking as good as if there was a high school reunion every month.

6.       Allow me to have personal time to be alone and even help create that sometimes.

7.       Be trustworthy and loyal and don’t dis me to your family or your friends.

8.       Cheer me on in the tough times.

9.       Create a home environment that offers peace from the stressors of life.

10.   Have faith in me that I am doing the best that I can.


Thoughts to Ponder:

 Which of the ten clues am I good at?

 Which need work?



 Ephesians 5:22 Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ… So, just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership, wives should likewise submit to their husbands (Message Bible)