AM and FM Communication

AM and FM Communication

Last night I had the opportunity to speak in a local Marriages By Design meeting at North Point Church in Springfield MO. Thirty four couples gathered to work on their marriage.  I talked about FM communication (Feelings Mode), which seems to be the frequency that most women prefer and AM communication (Assessment Mode), which seems to be the frequency that most men choose.  Women want to talk about their feelings and men want to fix something. I talked about the importance of using XM in that it is crucial to cross over into each other frequency to truly understand. 

          You can read more about this on this website under Resources > Articles > Counting on Communication.  I go more in depth in my book Marriages by Design.