Relationships

Have a bigger source than yourself.
God has your best interest at heart.
He will provide when the time is right.
What you focus on is what is biggest.
Focus on being a whole person.
Don’t go looking for someone to meet your needs.
Spend the time between relationships developing a healthy self.
Know the difference of being alone and being lonely.
Get the big picture.
What has this relationship got to do with the entirety of my life or with eternity?
What is my mission statement or “written down” purpose for being?
Love again.
Choose to love ‘because’ not ‘if’.
Love in a new way, a healthy way.
Pay attention to cycles and dates.
Be aware of biological and psychological rhythms or stages.
Plan for relevant dates in advance.
Create or recreate yourself to bring freshness to relationships.
Focus on creating something new or making something new of something old. Look for ways to divert attention in areas of interest so that upon return to concerns there is a new and fresh focus.
Invest in others.
Serve others.
Gain life by giving it away.
Choose good examples to follow.
Look for the good examples and follow them as they follow Christ.
Enjoy individuality.
Don’t compare.
Excellence is being your personal best.
Learn to laugh at yourself.
Don’t take yourself or life too seriously.